Have you ever been in love with a friend?Have you ever hide your love for the sake of "friendship",well,I've done such thing to make my friend happy.It hurts to see him happy with that girl,but he's a friend,I can't hurt him,no!I would just let myself live in agony than to see my friend controlling his feelings for that girl,just to make me feel "happy'.Well,I guess I'm selfish to love him back.
Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive, much like hunger or thirst. Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly-overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust exposes people to others, romantic attraction encourages people to focus their energy on mating, and attachment involves tolerating the spouse long enough to rear a child into infancy.
Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating , and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including dopamine, noreponephrine, and serotonin, which act similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side-effects such as an increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships.Attachment is the bonding which promotes relationships that last for many years, and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and , or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemical vasopressin than short-term relationships have lesser chances of getting married.
Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating , and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including dopamine, noreponephrine, and serotonin, which act similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side-effects such as an increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships.Attachment is the bonding which promotes relationships that last for many years, and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and , or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemical vasopressin than short-term relationships have lesser chances of getting married.
Being in love with a friend is nit a sin but forcing your friend to love you is definitely obvious kissing your fears away with his girlfriend.If you talk about love,it's better to show to that person that you love him than to say it because she can't feel your love and in telling you don't love him it would be so much better if you tell her than letting her feel you're out in the game stepping back 100 feet from the starting line.Levi a friend was once in love with a girl but then the girl left her and never did say goodbye,in the end the girl realized she love Levi but then Levi is now with the most beautiful gorgeous best friend Kristie!
Sorry for those people who never want o be in love with those people who love them dearly!and everytime you see my eyes with tears my heart cry,it only means,I always remind myself of you and us.Just so you know the feeling's controlling the best out of me.Love can never ever be blond with CURSORS!
Sorry for those people who never want o be in love with those people who love them dearly!and everytime you see my eyes with tears my heart cry,it only means,I always remind myself of you and us.Just so you know the feeling's controlling the best out of me.Love can never ever be blond with CURSORS!
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